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Long Distance Relationship Advice: Optimizing Communication

You've probably heard that communication is the cornerstone of any relationship. Welldouble that and multiply it by 3 and that's about how important communication is in your long distance love. Depending on the distance, many couples are only able to see one another on a weekly/monthly/yearly basis. Learning how to communicate will not only benefit you to close the distance, but it will also help you once you and your long distance love are finally reunited.

 

Communication is more than just talking; it is being able to connect on a deeper level of understanding. Think of it like lasagna and the ‘communication' is the noodles; there is a lot of other good stuff in lasagna that depends on the noodle to hold it all together. I guess what I'm getting at is without the foundation of communication than what is your LDR really sitting on? If you stripped away the communication portion from your long distance relationship than memories are all that remains, and that situation would be about the same as dating someone who is six feet under. Nobody wants that.

So get your butt in the saddle, grab the reins and really work on your communication. Here are a few major focal points of long distance love communicating.

 

Have you ever fallen out of touch with an old friend, and then when you see them again you have to spend hours catching up on what has happened in both of your lives? On the contrary, have you ever made it a point to keep in touch with a friend you rarely see, so when you finally get together it's like you never even missed a beat? You want your long distance love to be like that second scenario. If you and your partner were in the same city, you would no doubt be spending most of your time together, talking about, well, everything. Why should a long distance relationship be any different? It shouldn't be. Constantly communicating in a long distance is crucial to the success of the relationship.

 

Couples who have strong communication skills are able to withstand arguments and conflicts better than couples who don't know how to communicate, and WE ALL KNOW there will be arguments. If you are questioning something that your partner has said or done, instead of jumping to your own conclusions and getting worked up over nothing, a good communicator will simply ask them what they meant. Being "real" is a good practice because it can be difficult for those in a long distance relationship to recover from misunderstandings because the distance can amplify tension that would otherwise be trivial.

 

Another "big one" in regards to communication is explaining how you are feeling. This can be a little tougher for the men involved (stereotyping, whatever) as we haven't gotten much practice at conveying emotions, but its something that you should work on together. Communicating feelings is imperative and it actually might be easier since you probably won't be doing it face to face. Learn how to read your partner to try and pick up on what their feelings are and find a mature way to ask about them. If you feel the need to share your feelings make sure you think about how you will convey them and try to leave the emotion out of it.

 

News Flash- Long distance relationships are hard. There isn't a hand to squeeze when you don't know how to find the words. Remember that long distance relationships are far more challenging to communicate and do not, I repeat, do not get too down on yourself. It's tough. Give yourself a break. Long distance love is quite the undertaking. There will be problems, there will be ups and downs. You'll get mad about nothing, you'll probably take things out on your partner. These things happen. Dust yourself off and communicate things properly. Think of how you would have rather said things the first time. If you screw up in your communication be an adult, admit your guilt, apologize, communicate how would should have gone about things, and move on. I really hope this helps clear the air on communicating. When in doubt; let it out. Clear that air.

 

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